Electrical Play
Polaris asked for advice on electrical play on THIS picture.
hello my wife and i was trying estim and it works great on me but she gets nothing out of it is there a spot where she would get something out of it ??
That is a very good question. First of all, electricity is a really interesting and unique sensation that not everyone is into. I happen to be an electrical slut, but not everyone likes the feeling of e-stim. If your partner doesn’t like the feeling of electricity, it doesn’t really matter where on the body you do it. Your partner is just never going to get anything out of it.
Assuming that your partner does like the feeling of electricity there are some things to keep in mind. First of all, it can take a lot of practice in order to get the electricity to stimulate an orgasm. You want to aim for the pubococcygeus muscle or PC muscle in women. There’s a useful picture HERE.
You will want to use the sticky electrode tens pads and try placing them on different places around the cunt to see what is going to best suit your own personal anatomy. The placement in that picture looks like it would stimulate the PC muscle, but I would probably move the top set of tens pads to the labia or the area just above the clit. Make sure that you have a positive and negative set of pads on each side so that the electricity goes vertically through the area instead of horizontally across. Or do set it up so that the electricity goes horizontally across, maybe that will get you off.
You might also want to just try a vaginal or anal electrode. In the picture and video of me getting off on electrical play I don’t actually have the electricity going through my PC muscle. It’s going through my labia and was strong enough that it stimulated my clit.
Not everyone is going to be able to get a hands-free orgasm from e-stim, and it will take some experimentation to find the right spots to stimulate on your body. Good luck and have fun!!
Naughtibod
A while back I reviewed the iBuzz2 and wasn’t all that impressed by it. I really like the idea, and I was impressed by the technology, but it just wasn’t the toy for me. I jumped at the opportunity to try out the new Naughtibod, from the same people that make the Ohmibod. This is another toy that you hook into your mp3 player that syncs with the music. It is a slimline style vibe with gentle curves that fit just right about everywhere I put the vibe. There is a cord that you plug into the jack on your mp3 player, and that plugs into the vibe and your headphones. You can plug the Naughtibod in to anything with a headphone jack. It also comes with an additional end cap so that you can use it without hooking it up to your mp3 player.
This is a very attractive vibe, very well made, and the vibration is strong. The volume setting on your mp3 player adjusts the strength of vibration, just like the iBuzz2. I am not so fond of this feature because my cunt and ears work on very different scales. I don’t like loud music, but I do like strong vibration. I had it up to the volume level that I use to drown out the subway noise, which is way too loud for listening in my bedroom. I ended up only wearing one earbud so that I wouldn’t go crazy from the volume.
The Naughtibod worked well on my clit and inserted. It’s not quite a g-spot vibe, but if you really tried you could make it work. I don’t think it would work well as an anal vibe because the base isn’t wide enough to use safely in your ass. Overall I was very happy with the vibrator. It doesn’t have a lot of different programs like the iBuzz does, but it does vibrate with the music well. However, and I don’t know if this is just me using a Zune, the Naughtibod totally distorted the sound of my music. I’ll need to give it another try with my iPhone, but the distorted music really ruined the mood for me. It’s an excellent vibe, but distorting the sound is a deal breaker for me.
So I’m going to give it another try with the iPhone and post my video review soon.
The Sasi Vibe
Everyone is talking about the Sasi smart vibe right now. I’ve known about it for a while, and wanted one!! Here is a great new video about the vibe that will make you wet and envious.
If you’re ready to get your own, Babeland just happens to have them on sale right now! People are saying that it’s a pretty good oral sex simulator, and if you have one please comment and let us know what you think.
Audio Sex Toys: Freestyle, iBuzz, Naughtinano, Naughtibod & Ohmibod
Improving on all the past experiments in audio sex toys is the Freestyle, from the folks who made the Ohmibod. Right now at Babeland you get a free bottle of lube when you purchase the Freestyle!
Meredith discovers the iBuzz
Fleshbot’s review of the Naughtinano
Rabbit’s Reviews does the Ohmibod
Sarah at Sextoys.com reviews the Naughtinano
J.D. Bauchery at HotMoviesForHer discovers the Ohmibod G-Spot
HotMoviesForHer reviews the Naughtinano
Babeland.com reviews the Naughtinano
Watch local friend Kyle demo the iBuzz after an interesting bit about another piece of technology.
and Kyle’s blog about upgrading the Ohmibod
Raunchy commercial for the original Ohmibod
Steam Vibe
Yes, it’s a steam powered vibe made by a lovely local lesbian! Though she says that steam makes it too hot so she uses compressed air. She out at Maker Faire with the vibe this weekend. You can follow her twitter to get updates.
OhMiBod + Guitar
The thing about people is that they’ll try to fuck everything. And I for one am all in favor of rocking out with a vibe plugged in to the guitar amp!
Guitar + Vox + OhMiBod by NOTCOT
Fushia & Roxxie: E-Stim Pt. 2
Fushia keeps toying with Roxxie’s pussy using the e-stim machine. Roxxie is really enjoying it too much. Watch Fushia shock Roxxie’s pussy until she comes! 5:44 min. video
Name of Product: Zeus Beginner E-Stim Kit
Product Description: Designed to send electrical impulses to terminals and attachable toys placed on the body, easy to use rotary controls deliver the pulse amplitude and rate of your choice. Uses a 9Volt battery. Includes 4 Adhesive Pads, Instructions, Sex Clamps, Power Unit, 2 Sets of Lead Wires.
Price (approximate): $110.00
Where purchased: eXtreme Restraints
Overall recommendation: 
This is a fantastic kit with everything you need to start playing with electrical stimulation. The power box controls are easy to use and allows you to play with a really wide rage of shock strengths. This toy is completely safe to use and can give you pleasure or pain. The electrosex clamps are my favorite because they’re so easy to use and clean. I haven’t had much luck with the adhesive pads, because I got frustrated when they wouldn’t stick to my unshaved pussy. I’ll have to shave and try again.
Fushia & Roxxie: E-Stim Pt. 1
Fushia brings home a new toy to experiment with, an electrical play toy! She puts Roxxie in spreader bar bondage to make sure that she sits still, and hooks up the little clips to Roxxie’s labia. Then she experiments with sending electrical current through Roxxie’s pussy. 5:34 min. video
Name of Product: Easy Access Neoprene Restraint System
Product Description: comfortable, versatile and inexpensive, the cuffs are heavy duty nylon on the outside, yet comfortable neoprene on the inside. The spreader mid-section is rigid, made of nylon with a reinforced bar underneath. The cuffs are heavy duty Velcro.
Price (approximate): $40.00
Where purchased: eXtreme Restraints
Overall recommendation:
Easy to use, safe and comfortable on the skin. This spreader bar gives easy access to all the goods, and is very secure. Lightweight neoprene is less expensive than leather and vegan. Domme approved! I’m normally not much of a submissive, but I will be using this often on my submissive grrls.
Rechargable Vibrators
I like to think that rechargeable vibrators are a good green choice. Even though you’re still using power from your outlet to charge them, there is less battery waste going into landfills and you save some green by not buying a ton of batteries. Rechargeable vibrators are more expensive, but most higher end toys are more expensive anyway and just think of the convenience of never needing batteries again! You’ll never again have one of those, “uh oh, it’s 3am and my batteries are all dead” moments.
I’ve been testing the We Vibe. It is really innovative in it’s design. It is a hands free vibe that stimulates the clit and g-spot, and can be used during penetration or tribadism. I’ll be reviewing this one on The Wet Spot radio with Daisy.
Other rechargeable sex toys are available at Babeland
Or EdenFantasys
iBuzz Two
The iBuzz Two is an interesting piece of technology in the emerging field of teledildonics. Teledildonics is a term used for sex toys controlled by a computer. The idea isn’t really new, but the toys are getting better and there is more publicity. The iBuzz Two is a set of two bullet vibes that you connect to your iPod or other MP3 player. I use a Zune, and I think it also works with a PSP. You could use it alone without a MP3 player, but then why buy it in the first place?
The iBuzz Two is connected to your MP3 player using the headphone jack, and then two sets of headphones are plugged in the iBuzz Two. There are two bullet vibes on one mini plug, and two phthalate-free jelly toys can be added to the bullets. One is a pink bunny and the other is a blue cock ring, suggesting use by hetero couples. There is an iBuzz that seems to be more geared towards solo use, and I’m tempted to pick up one of those to try.
I have not yet tried this toy with a partner, so my review is based on solo use. I started by plugging in all the cords, which is a bit confusing at first. The instructions on the package are clear and easy to read, so you shouldn’t have a problem getting the toy ready. I turned my MP3 player on and found some music I liked. I’ve never masturbated while wearing headphones and listening to music. I was really surprised how it took me out of my boring bedroom with noise from the street and helped me get into a fantasy mind-set. I didn’t have a sex music playlist prepared so I just put on an internet radio station I had downloaded. I used the rabbit on the bullet that I inserted and the cock ring on the bullet for my clit. The rabbit seemed to dull the vibration too much for me to use it on my clit, but the cock ring has this nice nubby bumpy edge that felt really good on my clit. I found it difficult to get a good grip on the bullets. The cock ring was easier for me to hold because it had a nice big loop to grasp.
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iBuzz
I have an iBuzz! I’ve had it for several months. I’ve only used it once, and I didn’t have an MP3 player at that time. What happened to me and my libido?? I burned out the motor on the last bullet vibe I had.
If the lighting is good tomorrow I’ll be making a video demonstrating the iBuzz. All the cords and wires look a bit complicated, so I’ll be showing you all how the toy works. Now, what sort of music do I want to hear while I’m masturbating?
Sex Machines
One of the best parts of my job is browsing other sites to see what they’re doing. One thing that I’ve been looking at is sex machines. I’m hoping to try out some interesting new technology and toys in the new year. I found this interesting set of pictures I wanted to share, Maya : Maya pounded by sex machine.
It looks like your typical LA porn production, but I want a fucking machine like that! It would be so useful to have an automatic penetrating dildo when my hands are busy with other toys or other people.
Roxxie: Do It Yourself (BEAUTIFUL AGONY version) by Uniting Nations
A while back I made a video for Beautiful Agony. This is a really unique site because it shows only the face of the performer while masturbating. A British dance band, Uniting Nations, are big fans of the site and used clips of the “beautiful agonies” for a music video. My “beautiful agony” was selected and so I’m in the video! Apparently the video was pulled from YouTube for being too obscene, so it is currently being hosted by MySpace. Go figure. You only see the faces and the screaming and moaning is covered by the music, but of course we all know what is going on.
Do It Yourself (BEAUTIFUL AGONY version) by Uniting Nations
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Sex Toys in Second Life
Cyber-Dyke.net is in Second Life! Well I’m in Second life anyway. Look me up, I’m Delirium Thursday. I’d love to meet some of you lovely lady readers in world. I have some sex toys and a SexGen Purple Passion Diamond bed to test out.
