Electrical Play
Polaris asked for advice on electrical play on THIS picture.
hello my wife and i was trying estim and it works great on me but she gets nothing out of it is there a spot where she would get something out of it ??
That is a very good question. First of all, electricity is a really interesting and unique sensation that not everyone is into. I happen to be an electrical slut, but not everyone likes the feeling of e-stim. If your partner doesn’t like the feeling of electricity, it doesn’t really matter where on the body you do it. Your partner is just never going to get anything out of it.
Assuming that your partner does like the feeling of electricity there are some things to keep in mind. First of all, it can take a lot of practice in order to get the electricity to stimulate an orgasm. You want to aim for the pubococcygeus muscle or PC muscle in women. There’s a useful picture HERE.
You will want to use the sticky electrode tens pads and try placing them on different places around the cunt to see what is going to best suit your own personal anatomy. The placement in that picture looks like it would stimulate the PC muscle, but I would probably move the top set of tens pads to the labia or the area just above the clit. Make sure that you have a positive and negative set of pads on each side so that the electricity goes vertically through the area instead of horizontally across. Or do set it up so that the electricity goes horizontally across, maybe that will get you off.
You might also want to just try a vaginal or anal electrode. In the picture and video of me getting off on electrical play I don’t actually have the electricity going through my PC muscle. It’s going through my labia and was strong enough that it stimulated my clit.
Not everyone is going to be able to get a hands-free orgasm from e-stim, and it will take some experimentation to find the right spots to stimulate on your body. Good luck and have fun!!
Again with the Smart Balls!
I finally had a chance to try out the Smart Balls and I love them. The toy is what looks like two large balls connected by a flexible piece with a looped cord on one end. The balls are weighted, so when you shake them you can hear and feel the weight move inside. The balls are 1.5 inches in diameter, which is a good size for me. The length of the toy, 4 inches, is really perfect for me because I prefer sensations lower in my vagina. Smart Balls are not at like a dildo. They offer a more subtle sensation that is different from normal penetration. They are good for Kegel muscle exercise.
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Slyde Pt. 2
Another long video of Slyde! Watch this hot butch work her double dildo. She comes to a real orgasm with a real hot orgasm face!
8:51 min. video
Gang Up On Penny!
The three big bad tattooed dykes tease and torment Penny with their fingers and tongues. Then they bring in the dildo gag, a blindfold, so they can take turns fucking Penny’s dildo gag. 7:42 min. video
Alice & Penny: Dungeon Pt. 2- Nipple Clamps!
Alice gets teased and flogged a bit more with a gorgeous rubber flogger. Then Penny puts on some nice nipple claps for a mo0st delightful torture. Alice loves the nipple torture, and Penny gets ready to fuck her with the big slick dildo. 7:08 min. video
Name of Product: Adjustable Beaded Nipple Clamps
Product Description: Adjustable clamps with decorative beads
Price (approximate): $13.50
Where purchased: eXtremeRestraints
Overall recommendation: 
Tight and tough clamps for nipple play and torture! Pinch those pretty nipples with pretty beaded jewelry. Just as tight and strong as any other nipple clamps, so you get all the torture with beautiful decoration.
Alice & Penny: Dungeon Pt. 1- Bullet Vibe
Penny has her lovely girlfriend Alice in the dungeon. Penny pulls out and shows off all the toys. She starts with some nipple torture and sets mouse traps on Alice’s nipples. Then she pulls out the flogger and paddle to bring the energy up a notch. Of course she puts a bullet vibe in Alice’s pussy! 8:07 min. video
Name of Product: Silver Bullet
Product Description: Mini vibe, compact, 2-1/4″ x 1″, hard plastic, Babeland logo on battery case. Takes two AA batteries.
Price (approximate): $15.00
Where purchased: babeland
Overall recommendation:
Small but effective! It is a nice little vibrator for your clit or to tease your lover’s clit. Always a favorite! Be careful pulling on the cord connecting the bullet to the battery case. Too much pulling and you will pull the cords loose.
Fushia & Roxxie: E-Stim Pt. 2
Fushia keeps toying with Roxxie’s pussy using the e-stim machine. Roxxie is really enjoying it too much. Watch Fushia shock Roxxie’s pussy until she comes! 5:44 min. video
Name of Product: Zeus Beginner E-Stim Kit
Product Description: Designed to send electrical impulses to terminals and attachable toys placed on the body, easy to use rotary controls deliver the pulse amplitude and rate of your choice. Uses a 9Volt battery. Includes 4 Adhesive Pads, Instructions, Sex Clamps, Power Unit, 2 Sets of Lead Wires.
Price (approximate): $110.00
Where purchased: eXtreme Restraints
Overall recommendation:
This is a fantastic kit with everything you need to start playing with electrical stimulation. The power box controls are easy to use and allows you to play with a really wide rage of shock strengths. This toy is completely safe to use and can give you pleasure or pain. The electrosex clamps are my favorite because they’re so easy to use and clean. I haven’t had much luck with the adhesive pads, because I got frustrated when they wouldn’t stick to my unshaved pussy. I’ll have to shave and try again.
Fushia & Roxxie: E-Stim Pt. 1
Fushia brings home a new toy to experiment with, an electrical play toy! She puts Roxxie in spreader bar bondage to make sure that she sits still, and hooks up the little clips to Roxxie’s labia. Then she experiments with sending electrical current through Roxxie’s pussy. 5:34 min. video
Name of Product: Easy Access Neoprene Restraint System
Product Description: comfortable, versatile and inexpensive, the cuffs are heavy duty nylon on the outside, yet comfortable neoprene on the inside. The spreader mid-section is rigid, made of nylon with a reinforced bar underneath. The cuffs are heavy duty Velcro.
Price (approximate): $40.00
Where purchased: eXtreme Restraints
Overall recommendation:
Easy to use, safe and comfortable on the skin. This spreader bar gives easy access to all the goods, and is very secure. Lightweight neoprene is less expensive than leather and vegan. Domme approved! I’m normally not much of a submissive, but I will be using this often on my submissive grrls.
Romantic Couples Kits
These kits by Bijoux indiscrets caught my eye. They look really beautiful and I think they would make a great gift to share with your partner.
This is a secret agent kit.
I’ve only recently been introduced to the secret agent and spy fantasy. This seems like a good mental play fantasy for people that don’t like more painful types of play or aren’t able to do other types of physical play.
This one is a striptease kit.
I worked as a stripper and I had a ton of fun. I think this kit would be wonderful for a couple that isn’t comfortable going to a strip club together, don’t have a local strip club, or isn’t financially able to pay the big bucks for a lap dance. And the kit comes with a huge boa!
This one is called the Coffret bling bling kit.
It has some really gentle sensation devices, marabou cuffs, a tickler and lickable body dust. Don’t struggle too hard in these cuffs! you’ll need to submit to your partner and submit to the sensual pleasure
of being licked and tickled. I think this kit would be enjoyable for couples that aren’t ready for heavier BDSM or just aren’t interested in a lot of submission or pain sensations.
Nipple Clamps & the Pleasurable Pinch
My nipple clamps: I have a love/hate/love relationship with them. (Although to be honest, sometimes it’s more of a hate/love/hate relationship.) I am myself often profoundly passionately ambivalent, and my nipple clamps embody this dyadic intensity with exceptional and excruciating precision.
They’re a simple machine, really. Just two alligator clips yoked together by a slender chain. Some nipple clamps seem kinder with their adjustable screws set in their metal centers, but it’s a sham kindness really, for where the lies the gentleness so rests the cruelty. You can open the alligator mouths wider by manipulating the screw, but you can also make their jaws shut tight. Too wide and the clamps slip off your nipples erect and hard as pencil erasers. Too tight and, well, you can imagine.
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What people are saying about Smart Balls
Blogger reviews of Smart Balls
- Chelsea’s Review (tags: smart balls)
- Lolita Wolf’s Review (tags: smart balls)
- Stiletto Diaries Review (tags: smart balls)
- Jesse’s Webcam Stories Review (tags: smart balls)
- Roxxie’s Review at EdenFantasys.com (tags: smart balls)
Ben Wa & Smart Balls
Recently the Cyber-Dyke studio went on a shopping trip at Good Vibrations, and I made sure that Smart Balls made it to the cashier. I had never really thought about it, but Smart Balls look like they’re based on ben was balls. I haven’t used the Smart Balls yet, and I haven’t really done any other research. I went back through the blog to look for our reviews on ben wa balls and Smart Balls. I also found a really great video by Ducky Doolittle on the topic of ben wa balls.
Ducky Doolittle talks about the history and use of Ben Wa balls
Grab The Bookmarketer For Your Site
Penny: Beginner Bondage Kit
Beginner Bondage Kit
LeatherEtc.com
Leather Etc. is a little-known, San Francisco-based store specializing in leather attire, restraints, and toys. Primarilly a wholesaler to larger retail companies, their prices are extremely reasonable and if you’re a local, a trip to the Citadel will produce a flyer for an in-store lifetime ten percent off discount! No shipping on orders over $200 cinches the deal for non-locals.
One of the first things I purchased here was the Beginner Bondage Kit in black. I’ve been so pleased with it that I’ve also purchased the kit in pink and am considering adding a purple edition to my collection. (Not that I need three–this would be a present for that special, yet naughty, lady.) The kit comes in different sizes for increased customability and comfort. The first kit I ordered was via the store’s website, so I got the basic set, which is pretty burly. The leather of the cuffs and collar are prettz thick and lined with soft, dense fur, making them comfortable as well as confining. A cute riding crop with a hand-shaped head, blindfold, chain leash, small ball gag, and double-sided clips complete the kit.
If you take the time to go through the website or just order in store, you can better customize your kit for about the same low price. Posture collars, paddles, locking cuffs and collars, wide-headed riding crops, and more can help you meet your kinky needs exactly. And, if you like a uniform appearance to your toy chest, you can always go back later and add more, matching toys. Since Leather Etc. makes all their own merchandise, the colors are uniform and perfectly matched.
These kits are beautiful, personal, (comprably) inexpensive, and show quality craftsmanship. So while they’re of course aimed at beginners, more experienced players may want to invest in one, too–especially if you want your kit to stand out.
Michelle & Nikki: Blindfold
Nikki has a cold stiff paddle with soft fur on one side, and Michelle has an inflatable blindfold. That’s all the toys those two need for some screaming hot orgasms! 5:31 min. video
Chelsea: Njoy
Review submitted by
Chelsea Girl of PrettyDumbThings.com and sapphosgirls.com/words/
The packaging itself tells you these toys are different. A hinged black box wrapped in a serene strip of white paper, the packaging itself promises the combined joyous mystery of both a Tiffany’s and an iPod box. You are seduced by the box, in short, before you even see the toy.
You tenderly slide off its demure white band, you prise the two black halves apart with your fingernails, you open the box with your fingertips, and then, only then. you finally see the toy nestled in its bordello-red satin clamshell halves; it is a thing of beauty. It’s a multi-step disrobing, like undressing a Victorian virgin, and it’s a pleasure.
Njoy toys were designed by a mechanical engineer, and they have all of the aeronautic, ergonomic, and pragmatic essence you would expect of something designed within a centimeter of its infinitely long life. But these toys were also designed by a man who clearly has a sybaritic imagination, for they are not merely functional; they are fucking sexy as hell.
Stainless steel does not, for me at least, conjure up visions of erotic excess. I don’t swoon over medical implements, for example. I’ve never had a naughty nurse or dirty doctor fantasy. I have often appreciated the aesthetics of stainless steel; in a modernist utopian kind of way, stainless steel appliances—Viking ranges or 1930’s toasters, for instance—have a beautiful and sensual sheen. But aside from wanting to rub my cheek against them, I’ve never been compelled to get hot and bothered over steel.
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100% Cruel
Name of Product: Metal Clamps
Product Description: Small, metal clothes pins
Price (approximate): $10 each
Where purchased: JT’s Stockroom
Overall recommendation:
Pretty, economically-priced, well-made, and mean as hell. Who could ask for anything more?
Just looking at these little fuckers you know they’re going to hurt. They’re surprisingly heavy and the springs are very tight. For all but the most hardcore masochist I would only recommend use on relatively insensitive parts of the body, such as the tops of the thighs. I’m still working up to taking them on my nipples and pussy lips for more than a few seconds, but once I can I imagine that the temperature play my lover and I have dabbled in already will be even more rewarding. As with all metal toys, keeping these in the freezer or hot water can result in some interesting sensations.
The toys are also of superior craftsmanship. When I first got the clamps I though that I would be able to loosen them up a bit, so as to put them to better use. Not so. The spring is sturdily constructed and won’t loosen up. Of course, this just means that these toys will be in my repertoire for many years to come.
Usually I expect middling quality from JT’s Stockroom and only moderately painful toys, but these little clothespins are some of the meanest, best-made toys I’ve come across. In fact, if they were more versatile and less hardcore, I would have given them five kisses instead of only four. But considering the price, you may want them in your toy box even if you’re not an extreme masochist or sadist.
Slyde: Nexus, Nipple Clamps and Lipstick Vibe
Welcome Slyde to Girl Tools! She’s the hottest butch ever, and today she gets in touch with herself for us. She’s not afraid to take control and use all her toys for maximum pleasure. Watch her use the Nexus double dildo, home made nipple clamps and the lipstick vibe.
8:20 min. video