Electrical Play
Polaris asked for advice on electrical play on THIS picture.
hello my wife and i was trying estim and it works great on me but she gets nothing out of it is there a spot where she would get something out of it ??
That is a very good question. First of all, electricity is a really interesting and unique sensation that not everyone is into. I happen to be an electrical slut, but not everyone likes the feeling of e-stim. If your partner doesn’t like the feeling of electricity, it doesn’t really matter where on the body you do it. Your partner is just never going to get anything out of it.
Assuming that your partner does like the feeling of electricity there are some things to keep in mind. First of all, it can take a lot of practice in order to get the electricity to stimulate an orgasm. You want to aim for the pubococcygeus muscle or PC muscle in women. There’s a useful picture HERE.
You will want to use the sticky electrode tens pads and try placing them on different places around the cunt to see what is going to best suit your own personal anatomy. The placement in that picture looks like it would stimulate the PC muscle, but I would probably move the top set of tens pads to the labia or the area just above the clit. Make sure that you have a positive and negative set of pads on each side so that the electricity goes vertically through the area instead of horizontally across. Or do set it up so that the electricity goes horizontally across, maybe that will get you off.
You might also want to just try a vaginal or anal electrode. In the picture and video of me getting off on electrical play I don’t actually have the electricity going through my PC muscle. It’s going through my labia and was strong enough that it stimulated my clit.
Not everyone is going to be able to get a hands-free orgasm from e-stim, and it will take some experimentation to find the right spots to stimulate on your body. Good luck and have fun!!