“Toyz for Trannies” (Babeland’s words)
I’m never too sure how to best support for transfriends when it comes to sex acts and sexuality. It seems like it’s all so individual, and I’ve accidentally offended people with my assumptions too often. To make this more difficult for trans allies, or at least for me, it seems like sometimes my transfriends aren’t totally sure what they want or how to get what they want out of their own bodies. I’ve always had a difficult time with these conversations, because I don’t want to push things or inquire about what’s in their pants inappropriately, but I’m hoping to become a better supporter and ally. So I think for now I’m going to leave it to the professionals. Babeland just posted this blog about lube and barriers for transfolk, and it seems like good advice. What do you all think? I’m looking for honest feedback here.