Good Questions About Sex Toys!
“I want to try a strap-on but I’m not ready to commit too much. Do you have something for newbies?”
It has a classy looking but not too expensive harness that has a simple and easy to use design.
“What’s a good thin lube that won’t dry out?”
You have two basic options here – water based or silicone based lubricants.
You’re probably already won over to silicone but let me give you two more reasons you’ll want to make the switch.
Ginger: Cold Steel
Ginger starts to pleasure herself by fondling her breasts and pussy, then strips off one of her smooth satin gloves. She eyes the Njoy wand, a cold hard steel dildo, and her nipples get hard. She runs the cold curved steel across her body before she finally spreads her lips to take it in. 7:38 min. video
Name of Product: Njoy Pure Wand
Product Description: 24 oz. 11″ x 1-1/2″ Medical-grade stainless steel
Price (approximate): $108
Where purchased: babeland
Overall recommendation: 
Roxxie & Sapphire: Fun Wand
Name of Product: Fun Wand
Product Description: stainless steel dildo
Price (approximate): $88.00
Where purchased: babeland
Overall recommendation:
Sapphire helps Roxxie try out the Njoy Fun Wand. She uses the heavy stainless steel toy on Roxxie’s ass while Roxxie gets off with a Pocket Rocket. 6:51 min. video
“Toyz for Trannies” (Babeland’s words)
I’m never too sure how to best support for transfriends when it comes to sex acts and sexuality. It seems like it’s all so individual, and I’ve accidentally offended people with my assumptions too often. To make this more difficult for trans allies, or at least for me, it seems like sometimes my transfriends aren’t totally sure what they want or how to get what they want out of their own bodies. I’ve always had a difficult time with these conversations, because I don’t want to push things or inquire about what’s in their pants inappropriately, but I’m hoping to become a better supporter and ally. So I think for now I’m going to leave it to the professionals. Babeland just posted this blog about lube and barriers for transfolk, and it seems like good advice. What do you all think? I’m looking for honest feedback here.
The Jollie Dildo
I’m really kind of lazy when it comes to masturbation. I like a toy that will do the work for me. I can’t be bothered to fuck myself with a dildo, or even rock against a g-spot toy. If I wanted to do a lot of work I would get my partner! I’m usually not even out of bed yet in the morning when I masturbate, so the less effort I have to make to orgasm, the better.
I have been searching for this ideal toy that will do all the work for me, and I’ve found a lot of good toys but none that really got close until now. The Jollie dildo looks strange, and I was skeptical about it myself, but it just might be as close as I can get to a toy that does it all.
According to the box, Jollie delivers pleasure three ways. The large bump on the end is the cervix pressure point and is intended to give a full feeling when inserted. The bump in the middle hits the g-spot, and the handle has ridges and hits the clit. The box even has a little illustrated diagram of female anatomy showing how the Jollie dildo hits all the important spots.
I normally wouldn’t choose such a large toy for myself, but I’m glad I did because this thing is amazing! I had to get myself warmed up a bit with my vibrator first and use lots of lube. It felt like a huge stretch going in, but once it was in place it was more comfortable. I did get a “full feeling” and I could feel the pressure on my g-spot. It really isn’t the kind of dildo that you can easily fuck yourself with. It feels good to grind against it, and even better to use your Hitachi Wand or Wahl or other strong vibrator on it. When I put the Hitachi Wand on the end, oh my god! The world began to spin. It vibrated the dildo on my g-spot and on my clit. This is so much better than the rabbit-style vibes. For one, I like the larger feeling of this dildo. The rabbit style vibes just don’t seem to provide that larger size feeling. I also like that I can just insert the Jollie dildo and go with the Hitachi Wand rather than having to rock or move the rabbit style vibe. I’ve also been disappointed in the amount of pressure or sensation on the g-spot that you get from the rabbit style vibes. Because Jollie specifically puts pressure on the g-spot to begin with, I can get a much better sensation on my g-spot when I vibrate Jollie. I think Jollie does a much better job on the g-spot than the other Hitachi g-spot attachments. I really can’t wait to introduce my girlfriend to this one.
Odyssey Tickler
Well, I managed to throw off my sensitivity to vibrators with the Hitachi Wand. At least I suspect that’s what happened. I’m enjoying all these toys but they’re just not getting me off. It isn’t fair to write a bad review because my button isn’t functioning correctly. I’m going off the Hitachi Wand for a while, but in the meantime I’m going to post some of my preliminary reviews.
The Odyssey Tickler is one that I’ve been eyeing lustfully lately. It looks a lot like the Nubby G, but without the g-spot curve. You might not have noticed that the Odyssey Tickler’s ticklers are pointed in a different direction than the Nubby G’s nubs. I found the placement and direction of the ticklers to be far more effective than the nubs. FAR more effective. That small difference makes all the difference for me.
The Odyssey Tickler is easy to use and it is very easy to insert the batteries. I don’t know about the rest of you, but I need a toy to have a simple, easy to open and close design. Small design elements can really make a toy worth the extra money. To open the battery case you screw off the end. Inside is this little battery holder piece that guarantees that your batteries go in the right way and stay there. If the battery holder does not slide back in easily, it needs to turn a different direction or flip upside down. Don’t force the battery holder back in. It will slide in easily when it is oriented correctly. The batteries stay in place and won’t move around during play.
The toy switches on and off with a click button on the end. Click through three different vibration speeds. The vibration isn’t exceptionally intense, but the motor is strong and it will last all night. This is a great first time vibe or a great toy for couples. It can be used to tease or it can be used for g-spot play. It is waterproof so take it in the shower or to the hot tub.
Again with the Smart Balls!
I finally had a chance to try out the Smart Balls and I love them. The toy is what looks like two large balls connected by a flexible piece with a looped cord on one end. The balls are weighted, so when you shake them you can hear and feel the weight move inside. The balls are 1.5 inches in diameter, which is a good size for me. The length of the toy, 4 inches, is really perfect for me because I prefer sensations lower in my vagina. Smart Balls are not at like a dildo. They offer a more subtle sensation that is different from normal penetration. They are good for Kegel muscle exercise.
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Roxxie: Gee Whiz and G-Spotter
All this time I’ve been confusing the Hitachi dildo attachment toy that we have, the Gee Whiz, with the G-Spotter . I figured they were probably about the same, they’re both Hitachi attachments intended to stimulate the g-spot. I recently had a chance to use the G-Spotter, and let me tell you, they are a world apart!
First of all the Gee Whiz is silicone and the G-Spotter is vinyl. Recently concerns have been raised about the safety of vinyl products because of their PVC content. After the jelly rubber scare, I’m a bit cautious. There is also a considerable difference in size. The Gee Whiz is about the same size as the dildos I usually use, 5″ long and 1-1/2″ in diameter. The G-Spotter does not feel or look like a dildo at all without a bulbous head and at only 4″ long and 1-1/8″ in diameter. The difference may seem small when you look at the numbers, but it feels like the difference between dildo/penis penetration and finger penetration. I was not at all impressed with the G-Spotter, and it wasn’t long enough to reach my g-spot anyway.
If you did not like the Gee Whiz you may prefer the G-Spotter. You are not likely to notice any vibration near your ass with the G-Spotter, like Chrissy did when she used the G-Whiz. The G-Spotter is also only $16 while the Gee Whiz is $52. I think it is worth the extra money for the Gee Whiz, but your mileage may vary.
The Sasi Vibe
Everyone is talking about the Sasi smart vibe right now. I’ve known about it for a while, and wanted one!! Here is a great new video about the vibe that will make you wet and envious.
If you’re ready to get your own, Babeland just happens to have them on sale right now! People are saying that it’s a pretty good oral sex simulator, and if you have one please comment and let us know what you think.
