Fushia: Rabbit Vibe
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Face: Glass Dildo
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iBuzz
I have an iBuzz! I’ve had it for several months. I’ve only used it once, and I didn’t have an MP3 player at that time. What happened to me and my libido?? I burned out the motor on the last bullet vibe I had.
If the lighting is good tomorrow I’ll be making a video demonstrating the iBuzz. All the cords and wires look a bit complicated, so I’ll be showing you all how the toy works. Now, what sort of music do I want to hear while I’m masturbating?
Daphne
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Ben Wa & Smart Balls
Recently the Cyber-Dyke studio went on a shopping trip at Good Vibrations, and I made sure that Smart Balls made it to the cashier. I had never really thought about it, but Smart Balls look like they’re based on ben was balls. I haven’t used the Smart Balls yet, and I haven’t really done any other research. I went back through the blog to look for our reviews on ben wa balls and Smart Balls. I also found a really great video by Ducky Doolittle on the topic of ben wa balls.
Ducky Doolittle talks about the history and use of Ben Wa balls
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Chrissy & Sunny: Hitachi Pt. 2
Sunny is quite happy with Chrissy’s lesson on vibrators! Sunny wants to make sure that Chrissy has some fun too, so she gives Chrissy oral sex, goes for her g-spot with the pink acrylic dildo, and of course the Hitachi Wand! Lots of long deep kisses and breast worship too. 10:32 min. video
Michelle: Dildos
Michelle is such a wild kinky woman! We have quite a few dirty videos of her in the Member’s Area, she also has her own personal site. I found these great pictures of Michelle in a latex hood showing off her dildo collection!
Why Bondage Tape is on a Roll: A Spellbinding Review
Question: what smells like a new Barbie, won’t stick to your body hair, doesn’t require batteries, and could possibly dial your sexlife up to eleven? No, it’s not Jodie Marsh, though that’s an excellent guess. The answer, my inquisitive and possibly bi-curious friend, is bondage tape.
I bought my first roll of bondage tape about two years ago. In the cheery Bermuda pink shade of Pepto Bismol, the fat roll of tape looked innocuous and even a bit innocent, like it could be used to festoon a child’s birthday party. It seemed to me, then a neophyte in the world of D/s play—I’ve now graduated to the level of “dilettante,” a happy departure from the largely off-puttingly stern black-leather-and-chrome aesthetic of the lion’s share of D/s accoutrement. I didn’t feel ready to invest in anything that required a key for escape, but I did feel it was time to be bound tight and compliant. Bondage tape looked like it would fit the bill.
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Some Ways to Enjoy Your Girl Parts, pt.101
In some ways women get the short end of the stick when it comes to enjoying sex. While it’s true that some of us do get the benefit of being multi-orgasmic, most of us aren’t. And while it’s true that not only do we have the potential for many orgasms in one sexual session, and not only do studies prove that our orgasms longer-lasting and more intense than men’s orgasms, it’s also true that percentages of anorgasm in women have been so high that until recently, the inability to orgasm wasn’t considered a sexual dysfunction.
While I’m not saying that men have it easy in the sex department—especially men who have suffered sexual trauma, whether that trauma was emotional or physical—men’s biology makes it a bit easier for them to find pleasure and that our culture tends to be a bit more forgiving to men who like sex, at least to heterosexual men.
Our bodies don’t necessarily make it easy on us. Those recalcitrant sex organs tucked up, under, and away can play possum, and often as we lurch our ways toward pleasure, we may find that it’s like spelunking without a headlight. It’s often hard enough to discern what pleases us; it’s yet harder to give directions to someone else when we can’t even provide any kind of definitive road map. And on top of all of this, we’re often the unwitting bearer of sexual baggage—we learn to the bone the lessons we’ve been taught by culture and by experience that to experience sexual pleasure is, somehow, bad.
I’m not saying anything radically new to anyone who has ever opened a copy of Our Bodies/Our Selves, but I do think that it bears repeating: it’s your body and you can learn to enjoy it.
To that happy end, let me offer a few humble suggestions:
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Chrissy & Daphne: Thigh Harness
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Dildo Misadventures & Other things funny to Others
Last week, my mom came to visit me. This is a rare occurrence in my life; living for seventeen years in Gotham, I’ve had the pleasure of a visit from either of my parents exactly five times. Needless to say, the matriarchal visit necessitates some house-cleaning on my part, not the least of which is my gathering the sex toys from hither and yon, slipping any number of them into the many velvet and velveteen bags I have, stashing the roiling velvet-shrouded silicone, stainless steel, and plastic mess of them in a large bag and shoving that large bag into the hoary-deep recess under my bed.
My mom left on Sunday, the day of the wedding that wasn’t mine. The next day, or maybe the day after, I pulled the bag of toys and whatnot out from under my bed and put a few of said toys to their designated uses. After I’d reluctantly and begrudgingly come, I washed the toys, slipped the two of them—a sprightly new vibrator and a much beloved extra-large silicone dildo of color—into a small bag and dropped the small bag into the big bag that rested at the end of, no longer underneath, my bed.
On Thursday, I returned home from my long day out working my part-time job and saw that the scarlet velvet bag containing the extra-large dildo of color sitting on the floor, squat in the middle of my bedroom. Odd place for it, I thought, as I tossed it into the big bag of toys still gaping at the foot of my bed, and then I went about my evening.
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Daphne: Bullet Vibe
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Zille: Vibrating Inflatable Butt Plug
The original Cyber-Dyke, Zille, is still around blogging about her favorite kinky topics. Read her blog entry about a vibrating inflatable butt plug and read up on what she’s been doing these days.
Chrissy & Sunny: Hitachi Pt. 1
See how it all began! Chrissy seduces and introduces her innocent roommate Sunny to sex toys, starting with the Hitachi wand. Listen in on their candid discussion about sex and pleasure. 13:25 min video
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Chrissy & Sunny: Hitachi and Dildo
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How I came to Come
I started masturbating at around twelve. As far as I can remember, my orgasms then were kind of like a box lunch: contained, satisfying, pleasurable, sometimes even surprisingly so, but nothing to write home about. I certainly enjoyed them enough to rub myself raw in the process of procuring them. I enjoyed them enough to learn how to masturbate in such a way as to orgasm undetected while sleeping in a bunk in a roomful of other sleeping girls at camp (face down, breathing huskily into my pillow, pelvis pressing on my finger that ran ragged circles on my clit).
But these orgasms pale in comparison to the orgasms I have now when I masturbate, and they whimper and cower in the face of the orgasms I have with my lover. These were fledgling comings, and inasmuch as I knew nothing else, they were fine.
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Penny: Beginner Bondage Kit
Beginner Bondage Kit
LeatherEtc.com
Leather Etc. is a little-known, San Francisco-based store specializing in leather attire, restraints, and toys. Primarilly a wholesaler to larger retail companies, their prices are extremely reasonable and if you’re a local, a trip to the Citadel will produce a flyer for an in-store lifetime ten percent off discount! No shipping on orders over $200 cinches the deal for non-locals.
One of the first things I purchased here was the Beginner Bondage Kit in black. I’ve been so pleased with it that I’ve also purchased the kit in pink and am considering adding a purple edition to my collection. (Not that I need three–this would be a present for that special, yet naughty, lady.) The kit comes in different sizes for increased customability and comfort. The first kit I ordered was via the store’s website, so I got the basic set, which is pretty burly. The leather of the cuffs and collar are prettz thick and lined with soft, dense fur, making them comfortable as well as confining. A cute riding crop with a hand-shaped head, blindfold, chain leash, small ball gag, and double-sided clips complete the kit.
If you take the time to go through the website or just order in store, you can better customize your kit for about the same low price. Posture collars, paddles, locking cuffs and collars, wide-headed riding crops, and more can help you meet your kinky needs exactly. And, if you like a uniform appearance to your toy chest, you can always go back later and add more, matching toys. Since Leather Etc. makes all their own merchandise, the colors are uniform and perfectly matched.
These kits are beautiful, personal, (comprably) inexpensive, and show quality craftsmanship. So while they’re of course aimed at beginners, more experienced players may want to invest in one, too–especially if you want your kit to stand out.